I voiced my annoyance with you on your thing about Kaiser, and about the food thing in Italy, it didn’t turn out pretty, it was a discussion that shouldn’t even happen had I just let go of my irritation. Yesterday at Tham’s there was something I was debating if I should bring up to you about my annoyance but I chose to be quiet about and it let it go, and that was smart, because nothing can come from something that is unsaid.
I will learn to get over my own annoyance with you because I can’t determine which of my annoyance is valid and which isn’t, so I will learn to just let it go like I did yesterday during the time at Tham’s, and that was the best decision I’ve made about it, it could have turned out to be like the discussion we had today during the ride home after seeing Jeannette. I saved myself yesterday for staying silent. It may be a valid annoyance but I shouldn’t take the chance.
I hope by the time I turn 40, I will learn more on how we can adapt to each other. It’s all about communication. I want to master it by 40 so we don’t get into discussions like we had in the car today and the previous times.
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